political-linguaphile: Things no one tells you: Having sex doesn’t make you a whore. Not having sex doesn’t make you a saint. You don’t have to have kids if you don’t want to. You are the only person who has rights over your body. You are no one to judge others. “Femininity” is not anti-feminist.  Verbal harassment is not flattery.  If something makes you uncomfortable, you don’t have to endure it. You don’t owe anything to anyone.